07/03/2023

You’ve already taken a big step by recognising that you want and deserve healthier relationships

Dear Roe,
Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and I love him very much. When were together we dont really argue and could easily spend days together. When were apart though, I tend to overthink things a lot. If he didnt call when he said he was going to or isnt paying attention when Im speaking on the phone, I build these moments up in my head and see them all as, its over, he doesnt love me, Im just convenient. I know that Im very insecure and Im aware that I need quite a bit of validation from him. When its not there I can get moody and annoyed.